Working out at least four times a week, eating healthy, having no caffeine or dairy, only to have my mother who I’ve been avoiding for years to randomly find me in a supermarket and call me fat along with guilt tripping me into unblocking her. So my morning is fine.
Oh and the plus side she made a scene in a fucking shop rite.
i’m like,
literally somewhere in the Baltic sea right now and my internet is absolute
shit, but I have to say this: dealing with toxic family members is hella
difficult, especially if it’s a parent, because you’ll always feel like you owe
them. Also, you love them, and don’t want them to feel hurt. That’s fine and
groovy. However, I think you also owe it to yourself to love yourself too, and
be kind to yourself, and if continuing to block her makes u feel healthier and
happier, then do what you must. It doesn’t have to be permanent, you can tackle
dealing with her when you feel like it. But basically I’m saying that I will
genuinely fistfight anyone who hurts you in any way. You’ve pulled through so
much, and your life is all yours to control now, and you’re so inspiring and amazing and i’m just??? in awe of you??? And every time i see u active on tumblr i just feel so happy. byt but anyway, your life. It’s yours, and if someone wants
you to prioritize accommodating their toxic behaviour at the expense on your
happiness, then guilt aint got your address sis. They’re the ones who should
feel guilty tbh. ilu
marlowfication 